CONSENTUAL SEX AND RAPE.

I've had conversations with my male friends about sex. From these conversations, I've come to appreciate that many don't know that they rape women, and are unbothered about it and this comes with much arrogance and entitlement. 

Entitlement. 

Some friends have said things like "my crib, my rules." If a lady accepts to visit, she has consented to sex. Guys make prior preparations for these visits, including buying alcohol so as to get the victim intoxicated and easy to sleep with. 

Arrogance.

If a lady visitor is not playing by, refuses to take the alcohol, calls out the guy on a being touchy, refuses to enter the bedroom or asks that the highly sexual movie he has asked that they watch together be changed, she MUST leave. Yeah, it happens but I know girls never tell their tales on this issues. 

Guys also try to keep ladies at their houses till it's too late that they will fear to leave alone. A night in a guys bed is assumed as consent. He will try everything to have sex with the lady, getting violent at times or even chasing you out of his crib when it's too late. 

When you listen to some of the stories my peers tell, there are some who praise themselves for having tried all night and 'getting lucky' like at 5am. Some even will tell you that she wasn't wet enough, she just lay there like a dead body.... I mean, you wanna fuck someone who isn't interested. What do you expect? 

Explaining to my peers that this is rape is a hustle😂😕.In fact, telling male friends that a lady visited,she slept in your bed but you didn't have any sex because she refused or wasn't ready attracts condemnation and insults. Been there.... 

The expectation of sex from any female that responds to a WhatsApp message is the beginning of rape. A young man who thinks every female visitor must be fucked, is a rapist waiting for the next victim. 😕