BRO, YOU GOT PLAYED.

I've been played ONCE(the most painful one)  in my life. She was good... great even... a real professional. She covered her tracks immaculately.... She used my non invasive personality against me.... She won.... Until she didn't. Here's the story :

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First week of talking she invites me to her house warming party (she's 3 years older than me, but it doesn't matter😅)I pull up and all her friends are there.... Girls and guys. Mind you, I barely know her at this point. So I don't know anyone there. But I am social.So we get to play some drinking games.

I dont know who made this game up.... But we all agree to put a bunch of questions into a bowl and EVERYONE has to answer whatever question anyone pulls out. The bowl comes to me and the question is

 "When was the last time you had sex? "...

Who set me up? Holy.... Anyway I answer. 

Remember we've only been talking for a week. We hadn't slept together yet. So my answer was about to shake the room. I tell the truth and say 

"3 days ago."

As I avoid all eye contact with her. I may have just shot myself. Now there's this "Chilled rich kid" sitting directly across from me and besides her. It's his turn to answer the same question. I wasn't certain at the time but I'm pretty sure he whispers to the girl I'm seeing 

"When was the last time again? "

and he says "last week...."

Pardon??? Nah.... It's the liquor. I'm tripping. She doesn't have a man she's currently smashing in the room right now.... NOPE.... I convince myself I must have misheard and the game continues.... It's her turn to answer. She gets up and 'gets everyone drinks'

I'm like "it's your turn.... "She goes 'you guys keep playing I'm getting more liquor for everybody'.... I gave her the the shifty eyes... But I don't want to make it an issue. Especially since nobody in the room even knew me. But I'm TRIPPIN inside.... 

I can't stop thinking about "The Coolkid" POTENTIALLY whispering to her. So I end up overthinking so much till I can't focus anymore. And I proceed to leave at around 2am... It's late anyway. So I make that my excuse for the abrupt decision to stop playing. She notices I'm off and meets me at the door. She's like "everything okay? " ....of course I lie and hit her with "I'm good.... Just getting tired".I can tell she doesn't buy it. I can see she's trying to replay the night and locate the moment she slipped up. But we both hold composure and I leave. 

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I'm there thinking of how I'm gonna walk home then 20 minutes later I text her 

"Listen, I know we're not together and we just started talking. But don't invite me to a party with a guy you're fucking.... "I couldn't keep it in any longer... But she was ready.

She responds with the vintage "WTH are you talking about" line.... So I continue to tell her about what I believe I heard..... "'Coolkid' turned tk you and asked you when was the last time".....this is where she goes into her bag

"First of all.... Me and 'Coolkid' are ONLY friends. "

"He didn't ask me when was the last time him and I had sex.... He asked when was the last time he told me he had sex because he's always telling me about chicks he's fucking.... "

Bruh, at the time I felt like an IDIOT.... And because I barely knew her.... Now I look CRAZY. 

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Because I now felt like a damn psychopath... I apologize.... I APOLOGIZE. And tell her come outside so I can tell her in person. She comes and she milks me for all I got. 

"I can't believe you would think I would so that? Wow... "

I apologize AGAIN... She leaves and I walk home. 

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Fast forward.... We get past that 'mishap' and we continue to talk for the next 7 months. Truthfully, without any issues. No fights. She meets people close to me, my cousins and even my mum. But I haven't made her my girlfriend yet because that night in week 1 still hasn't left my mind. My cousin is getting married and he ask me if I want to invite her as a guest. Now, my cousins wedding isn't a small thing. So I had to really think hard if I would bring her to that. After some thought, I decide she's been amazing for 7 months.... Why not, right?...... Well..... 

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For the entire time we've been talking I hadn't posted a single photo of her.... Kept it on the know because I had my concerns. But if she's coming to my cousins wedding... I felt this was the day I'd make her my girl. And release it publicly with my first past of us. 

It's reception time and the DJ is playing some tracks. I ask my cousin's friend to record us dancing because we were hitting it nasty(the dancing😅)....it's time.... I post it on Instagram and continue dancing with "my girl".

It's blowing up.... Many comments.... Many views. And a special DM request. I open the request and it's him..... COOLKID... And one question alone. "Why are you posting my girl? ".....I delete the video immediately. Didn't even think twice. 

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At this point we had left the reception and I was helping a friend who was shooting at a certain event and I told her to come meet me there.... She arrives with a text ....

 "I'm here babe.... " 

I reply.. 

"Excellent.... "

I meet her outside and tell her let's go for a walk.... She's like

 "What's going on?... "

I repeat

"A WALK"

Straight to business.... I have so much energy right now.... "Why is COOLKID in my DM's? ".....Again, she's prepared like a Kenyan politician....

" Wow... He's funny.... This guy has been jealous for years.... Why is he doing that shit? OMG... "

I stare at her. She lies so comfortably,.... This is nuts. 

I have to get inside and check if my buddy is done shooting. So I park the conversation. But my mind is racing. The event ends and we head back to her crib. I tell her we'll talk later and I go to sleep. First thing in the morning I wake her up with "Now talk.... "

She tells me how there's nothing between them.... And that she'll handle it. "But don't message him." My brains and emotions are all over the place at that point. I agree to her terms. And head home. But I'm TRIPPING. 

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I travel back to school and the next morning I'm in class. And I can't even focus. I know she said don't message him. But I need answers. I'm texting him. Fuck it. I send him a DM with my phone number accompanied with a "call me".He calls in 1.567583 seconds. I get right into it. 

"So Coolkid... Lets cut the chase. Have you had sex with her? " 

Dude laughs and responds with

"She didn't tell you? " I'm like, tell me what?..... Just answer the damn question Coolkid.... He's like "Bro, we dated for 2 years and have been neighbors for over 4 years. What do you think? "....I pause..... 

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I compose myself and ask again with whatever hope I had left.... 

"Coolkid... Did you have sex with her? "

He goes 

"Of course man....have you? ''....I tell him we've been talking for 7 months so definitely..... So then I ask when was the last time? He goes 

"Umm.. Like 3 days ago I think. "

My cousins wedding was the previous weekend.... TWO DAYS AGO!!! .Alright, remain composed Owen.... You're in class. Just be calm. I'm like alright... 

"Did you use a condom? "

He goes

"NEVER! "

I almost threw up on my classmates books. 

So Coolkid goes 

"Alright I have a question for you.... "

At this point I'm so weak. I reluctantly say

"Sure".

He goes

"There was this night around 9pm where you were calling her and texting her that you were outside her place. What was that about? "

I take a second.... I ask 

"How did you know that? "

He goes "Well I was inside and she told me not to open it. Was that you? " I blank stare at the whiteboard because the lecture hadn't started yet. 

"Coolkid.... That was you? "

"....Yeah, bro... "

I'm dizzy. She told me she was at a friends for a girl night or smthn of the sort. 

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Before deciding to text Coolkid, I had no idea what to expect from the  conversation. So I decided to record the call.... I hang up and just sent her the recording. She had the nerve to reply with 

"So you messaged him anyway? "

Alright... I'm like... Nah, you don't get to do that. 

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I proceeded to add both of them in a WhatsApp group. I'm done with games. This ends now. She comments in the group 

"This is immature "

Yeah, I wasn't mature. I knew it but I just had to do it. You can't play me fowl because I'm younger. LMFAO... Anyway.... "Coolkid, have you and her been together and had sex?... Yes or no" now Coolkid comments, "Bro, prove you did.... "

WHAT!??? WHAT IS HAPPENING.... WE JUST HAD A CALL.... YOU'RE QUESTIONING ME!? I'm genuinely confused.... She leaves the group and so does he.... I'm sitting there in AMAZEMENT. 

what the hell just happened? LMFAO WHAT MJDHFJHSFDHDUDVD..... Anyway.... They can have each other. 

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A friend just texted me about the girl from the story.... She's like "you won't believe who she's dating now.... "I haven't seen or spoken to that girl since 2018...Turns out I know the dude she's NOW with.... Another dude that isn't Coolkid. Im staying out of this.