Friday, January 10, 2020

ALL YOU GOT TO KNOW ABOUT HAPPINESS.

Whether you're single, married, divorced or not in a relationship at all be happy. Happiness is not defined by relationship status. It's a personal desicion. There are happy singles, married and divorced people as there are equally unhappy ones. 
Happiness is a personal responsibility. I was a happy single dude and I remain a happy dude despite my relationship status. By the way, dating didn't or hasn't made me happy, it only multiplied it because my girl brought her own happiness too. Whether you own those cool sneakers, cool accessories, a car, bike or none, be HAPPY. 
There are many jet owners who are unhappy. In fact, generally available statistics have shown higher rates of depression amongst the "haves".I mean, it is a existence when ones happiness is anchored on such material things. 
Oh yes, material things, money being the fountainhead provide comfort and conveniences but many are unhappily comfortable. Use money and material things for what they are; means and resources. No more, no less. 
Now, be wary of many fake social media users that put you under pressure to acquire this/that to signify you are "Young, rich and Trendy, " leading you to unnecessary depression. You will buy those kicks and own those gold chains. That car. That lady. You will when you need to and have the means. 

Not having one doesn't mean you aren't "Cool".If owning cool stuff and every pretty thing were the yardstick of measuring being rich and classy, just imagine how rich many if not every Instagrammer is. 
Religion has taught many to feel cursed when they go through normal life challenges in varied forms, and to feel blessed only when there is money in their pockets. 

If people you know buy awsome stuff, genuinely be happy for them. Rejoice with them with sincierity but STOP using it to measure your life. There is no specific year designated for you to buy all that "awsome stuff" or be financially rich. These things happen largely by what you do with a sense of good timing. So don't let any person put unnecessary pressure on you. Many challenges you face are meant to strengthen, enrich and Bless you. STOP RUNNING AWAY FROM THEM. Though many of them too can be as a result of stupidity, folly, pride, greed and procrastination. You will be fine ,but first, be HAPPY, and at PEACE. PEACE is especially the reward of doing the right thing and it all begins when your words and actions are mostly in harmony. 
Watch, listen, meditate, buy wisdom and sell it NOT.Apply wisdom. Send out positive thoughts and energy into the world and towards others 💯.Conspire against no one. Live in the moment. The moment was once the tomorrow and future you postponed your happiness to. Now it is here⚡.Drink, eat and merry in it,for it is good and a blessing to be able to enjoy what one has laboured for.

Now GO and LIVE life🌴🌊.

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